https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQ7XCalQfx0 

"Many people spend their life, at the mercy of circumstances. Living at the mercy of what happens to them. Living at the mercy of other people. NOT living in the present, because they are stuck in the prison of their past. If you want to live a GREAT life, don’t allow yourself to be controlled by any of these things. NUMBER 1 - Your PAST. NUMBER 2 - Other peoples opinions and judgements NUMBER 3 - LIMITED BELIEFS you project on yourself. NUMBER 4 - Relationships, and NUMBER 5 - MONEY." Speakers: Josiah Ruff