Every now and then we have moments of loss or despair where we ask ourselves "why me?"... We loathe, pity and greive at our situation thinking it couldn't get much worse.... Let loose of such feelings, let sorrow run its course... It can only exist as long as we keep feeding the fire by questioning over and over again as to "why me"... Maybe life has something better awaiting you, maybe a change was necessary, maybe this was the only way.... Don't give up, don't grasp sorrow and define yourself from what you've lost... Embrace it, accept your sadness and it gradually disappears.